College life can be fun and exciting. You get to get out from under your parents control and lead a life that is free. But if incontinence is thrown into the mix, life becomes challenging. With a few simple adjustments, however, these challenges become easier to face, and you will still enjoy what college life has to offer you.
The first thing that will make dealing with incontinence in college easier is that you can ask for your own room. Staying in your own room versus having a roommate will enable you to keep this part of your life more of a secret, since you will have a more private changing place, and you can easily keep your diapers from being discovered. If you wish for nobody to be in your room, you will have no problem making this happen, since you will not have a roommate bringing others in. You will want to ask for your own room early on because if you wait until the last minute; it may not be possible for you to receive this accommodation.
Another thing you can do that will make incontinence easier to deal with in the college setting is to avoid getting intoxicated. Becoming grossly intoxicated will not only cause you to embarrass yourself, as your diaper will become overtaxed by all of the wetting you will do, it allows for others to take advantage of you. Many crazy things happen to drunken college students, since they are too drunk to be in control. If someone decided to be funny, they can strip you of your clothing for you to lie there in nothing but a diaper, making a horrible spectacle of you or worse. To be sure that you never end up in that situation, drink just enough that you will remain in control and aware of your surroundings at all times. You will also want to watch your drink closely so that nobody can slip you any drugs.
Choosing your company carefully will also make dealing with your incontinence easier. For instance, if you hang around a crowd that is more excepting and mature, there will be less of a chance that you are judged for living with this condition should your secret somehow get out. If you hang with the wrong crowd, however, which would consist of people who are wild, shallow, and do not have a care in the world, the outcome could be disastrous, as they will not only laugh at you, they will have no problem letting the entire school know and amusing themselves at your expense. The mature and excepting crowd, on the other hand, will remain your friends, and they will make sure your secret is guarded. This crowd will consist of people that will help you through the rough times, and you can confide in them with confidence.
Just because you are incontinent does not mean that you cannot enjoy the many perks of college life. Dealing with your incontinence in a way that is comfortable for you will ensure that you get everything you can out of this once in a lifetime experience.