Flirting can be a lot of fun and it is something you can do when you’re single. Flirting can help increase your confidence in connecting with others, give you that great tingling sensation when a connection is made, overcome your fear of rejection, help build rapport with others and at the same time make others feel good about themselves. Many people are unsure in how to go about in flirting with someone. The following are some quick tip on how you can flirt with others.
Smile and make eye contact. Eye contact is how two people first connect with each other. So look at that person, give them that special look of interest in your eyes and smile. That will show the other person that you like them and would like to possibly get to know them.
Express admiration towards that person. Think about what you like about that person and give them a compliment. For example, let them know they have nice eyes or that you admire their enthusiasm for life. Whatever it is make sure it’s something about who they are and not about what they have materialistically such as their car or outfit.
Say something sexy about yourself. After you have talked with that person for a while say something sexy about yourself. For example, if you’re a woman you can say something like, “I can twist a cherry stem in a knot”. If you’re a guy you can say something like, “I can pump my chest muscles back and forth”. Those may sound a bit cheesy but I think you got the picture. Just be creative and state a sexy fact about who you are.
Make a personal touch. As your talking with that person briefly touch their arm or back. This sends out a friendly flirty vibe that you like them. Make sure the touch is not sexual in nature otherwise you may find big grin on that person’s face.
Show interest in what the other person is saying. Pay close attention to what he or she has to say. You can show interest by leaning towards them, nodding, repeating what is said and commenting in the end.
Exude confidence. The tactics above will be perceived positive and attractive if you deliver it with confidence. So stand up straight, look at that person in the eyes and feel good about whom you are.
Apply these flirt tips to someone you find interesting and see what happens. Who knows the other person may become interested in you and have enough confidence to flirt back. Flirting may just be something that occurs in passing or it could be a start of a new friendship. Whatever the outcome just remember to have FUN!