Just as you, women, are mainly a mystery for us, we also remain a mystery for you. There have been written hundreds of articles about how to understand a man, how to hank a man and how to make him happy, but now I will tell you what does a man wants to hear.
We want to be the hero who managed to win your heart, the one who knows to stop the storms in your life, the best friend and lover. In the end, we are not so complicated as you think we are. We want to be loved, fed, and sometimes to be left alone in order to recharge the batteries.
We want to feel that we belong to a woman
“You can do it, I trust you.” It is perhaps one of the most important things we want to hear. It doesn’t matter what he does, that he works in sales or in a factory or in business.
The man next to you should be aware that you believe in him and appreciate him. It doesn’t matter that you earn more money than he does. Men need to feel that they belong to a woman and they need to feel loved by her.
We want you to tell us that we are sexy. This may be caused by our personality, by the tattoo on the left arm or by the way we have dressed. It gives us more confidence in ourselves to know that we are still attractive for the woman next to us.
We like to hear that we are funny. If the one next to us laughs to our jokes, especially if nobody else understands them. Jokes that are not funny for those from outside, but which are hysterically funny for the two of us, being the best.
We want to be appreciated
We like to hear that we are intelligent. Maybe we found a solution to a problem of logistics at work, or, at home, we managed to solve the conflict between mother and wife. Maybe the one next to us knows how to educate children in a manner which brings benefits to the whole family. No matter what he manages to do, it’s really an intelligent solution brought by him and a compliment they want to hear from the woman in their lives.
A man wants to hear that he makes you happy: it’s a compliment that a man wants to hear from his wife or girlfriend, because there are many who do everything possible to make happy the women next to them.
I love you
And, in the end, men want to hear the two magic words: ‘I love you!’. No need to have a reason to say that, just to feel and say it from your heart.
We, the men, need women. We love you, we desire you, we want you. We want to be your champion and your hero. We wish to be your world and see the sunrise with you in our arms.